We usually prefer to admire people who are specifically of our field. If a person is fond of dancing then it's common that he will follow the path of a dancer only. This is a primary step of everyone’s life, that they begin to follow their idols, blindly. Taking you back in your childhood, we all must have loved someone famous, whether it’s an actor, cricketer, singer or any famous personality. Our love for them represents that, ‘we want to be like them’. This is what we call passion when we want to follow our dreams. Childhood was the only time when we saw dreams with an abundance of sparkle in our eyes.
But somehow most of us couldn’t achieve that dream because of hurdles. Few obstacles came in our way and destroyed our will power in accomplishing it. These obstacles first strike our mind and then our lives.
Here are 3 big reasons that you didn’t become, what you always wanted to be: -
Start Believing In Yourself
You don’t have to be exactly like someone, don’t be anybody’s carbon copy. If we talk about your inspiration is Virat Kohli, and you want to be just like him only, then why would the cricket team hire you, as their already one Virat Kohli, there is no space for another one. To build an identity, you have to represent ‘you as yourself’ to people out there. No one else will do it for you, take your stand, raise your standards. And start building your empire from this moment only.
Build Strategies For Future
Don’t get stuck into the past, everything happens in our life for a genuine reason. If you have been in a good phase then you have to pass through a bad phase too. It’s a part of life, without failures and disappointments, you will never touch success. But we somehow fail in vanishing the bad memories from our mind and due to this, we fail at focusing on our future goals. How to reach and when to reach are the factors we should be worried about. On these two factors, the whole future is depended.
Stop Being Afraid Of Experiments
Keep on trying new things, old paths will never open new ways to opportunities. And only you can discover the new paths, keep moving, keep discovering, keep trying, just don’t STOP. Stopping is not an option, and it never will be one. With the aim of making your future, you first have to sacrifice your present. The sacrifices are in terms of sleep, parties, movies and many more. Entertaining stuff will never give you a positive output. Rather than wasting time on these contents, you should invest your time in reading novels, surfing motivational quotes and blogs, gaining general knowledge, having regular updates of your passion’s niche. Your time is very precious, spend it wisely.